Honeymoon

Planning for the honeymoon is very important. Add to your checklist:

Passport – are you both ready to travel? Make sure of dates and double check in enough time.

Health – what prescription medication needs to go with? Get it before hand and make sure to pack enough for the duration. Take pro-biotics while on honeymoon and avoid an upset tummy due to exotic foods. Pack a small emergency kit and remember headache tablets!

Champagne – organize with the hotel to send champagne and other spoil-goodies up on the first day there. Write a personalized card of love and gratitude to your partner beforehand and pack it not too deep so that you can slip it into the basket without effort.

Clothing – now is the time for lingerie and pretty outfits. Spoil yourself with new contents in your suitcase.

Gifts – pack a small, humble gift for every day there. Spoil him/her with something on the pillow every evening.

Honeymooners want it all, mind-blowing sex, romance and the perfect holiday to boot. Why not! Staggering honeymoon sex is what the world wishes for you after all!

The best preparation you can do is to get excited. Fantasize about your own seduction techniques and shop for eye-popping lingerie, oils and chocolates.

Remember that great sex is had by lovers that enjoy erotic foreplay. The mental starters of sex are also the road to good, medium or bad sex. Sexual partners that trust each other and enjoy the act of sex together also enjoys foreplay. This starter course to sex involves seduction, sensuality and sexuality all achieved through the senses. Enjoying smell, taste and skin-touching are all key to getting in the mood. And grooms, it's not something you do en route; foreplay in itself is sex on a different level.
A massage with sensually scented oils, by candle light while sipping from a flute of bubbly has been tried and successfully tested by many. A massage that starts off being relaxing, interrupted by kissing all over and resumed with more eroticism is a great form of seduction.

Centuries ago girls of puberty age, were taught the art of sacred sexuality and bathing, massaging, scented oils and fruit were all used in erotic foreplay. These sex teachings was called Kama Sutra, meaning a sex manual (Sutra) from the Hindu god of love (Kama). Today we keep sex and seduction for adulthood but erotic foreplay is still very similar.

During foreplay kissing is probably the most fun you can have during the clothed stage. Good kissers not only kiss the way they would like to be kissed themselves, but take cues from their partners too. A great kiss is long and deep, but not exhausting or forceful. Like sex, a kiss should never turn into slobbering mess. The erotic tongue should be used for running lightly across lips and movements should not be a practised pattern. Shivery sensations are the goal and achieved (or not!) around other areas too, such as the neck.

Kama Sutra is about sex and its many sexual positions available for both lovers to reach orgasms. These sex positions are mood enhancing and sexually stimulating. Kama Sutra sex entails skin sensations, breathing and mindfulness of the orgasm.

Tantric sex and traditions practise a sexual and cosmic connection that offers good foreplay too. Tantric lovers see their orgasms as cosmic and divine experiences, which should ideally not be experienced once in the sex act. Thus, through breathing, posture and meditation, the tantric male lover has dry orgasms that enabling the couple to have long sex acts and heightened levels of satisfaction. In short, tantric sex is not about the sex action but about the sex method.

Every sex wish out there has the Expanded Orgasm list on it. These sexual principles of the Expanded Orgasm can be traced back thousands of years when ancient cultures practised and trained in sex techniques through consideration of sensual awareness and mindfulness. Lovers both give and receive genital stimulation and for an expanded orgasm, sex is performed according to both individuals' body, emotional, spiritual and mental margins.

Most guys will find stimulation of the genitals and nipples arousing and verbal suggestions sexy. Women are turned on by his confident experience and his consideration for her emotional, mental and spiritual being. Both sexes want gentle stimulation, to be enjoyed and touched all over and feel like they are sexually arousing to the other.

Turn-offs include guys with socks on, tweaking of body-parts and speed-wobbles. Guys may need to slow down now and then, but women shouldn't break their own rhythms. During the 'cooling off' period it is a great opportunity for him to explore her body exclusively and concentrate on her pleasure. Both parties need to be glowing and clean, shaved and smelling fresh. Too much perfume or aftershave is a bad idea!

Finally after play... sexual satisfaction brings exhaustion and emotional saturation. When the sexual act is about physical pleasure based on both partner's emotional, mental and spiritual uniqueness you should now feel a 100% in tune with each other with no following need for assurance.

Sex should be a loving and enjoyable act that should never leave one partner needing assurance afterwards. Satisfied lovers also don't thank each other but grin at each other - too mind-blown to talk!

But when you have your breath and brains back, this is a wonderful opportunity to give your lover a honeymoon gift. Something small is ideal, such as a framed photograph of a happy time back when you just started dating.

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